When will they get it?

Every year my school cancels classes for two days to put on the Symposium on Democracy. Every year there is a different focus and every year attendance is "required." The college wants the students to get a chance to listen to speakers they may never thought to listen to and gives information that we might never have experienced otherwise. Up until this year the "required" attendance was more of a trust thing. This year they are swiping ID cards and "counting absences" for students who don't attend certain sessions.
First off, forcing me to go to something I am not interested in is going to make me upset and when I go I'm not going to pay attention. I am going to be "that person" who is on their phone, not paying attention, and I am going to be itching to get out of there. Secondly, because I was forced to go to something I didn't want to go to, now I don't want to go to the thing I was interested in because I just wasted 2 hours on something I couldn't care less about.
Not every topic is going to be interesting to everyone. Expecting students to attend all sessions is ridiculous. They can't do anything with this "attendance policy." There are no consequences to not going and they can't force people to go. I am not going to any of the required sessions, 1 because none of them are of any interest to me, 2 There are non required sessions that I'd rather go to because they sound interesting to me, and 3 I am an adult paying to go to this school. You do not tell me what to do. I pay you...I do what I want to do. Really I am wanting to "stick it to the man." Also, it helps that the last two years I was much more interested in the topics and attended many more sessions. Not because my attendance was being taken but because I was interested.

Labor Day Weekend

As I return from Springfield I am of course sad because I returned alone while the great boy of mine stayed there. But I think back to what a great time we had. Friday we watched Shutter Island while enjoying a pizza. Saturday the wonderful boy planned a surprise all day date for us! It was exciting to not have to plan anything and to not know what we were going to do. So he picked me up (which was a nice touch) and took me to lunch across town (Chipotle) but drove up and down side streets so I could look at old charming houses, because I love doing that. After lunch we had fun at Fun Acre playing putt putt. Unfortunately we got stuck behind a group of 6 adults and 2 kids who weren't very nice and didn't let us play through, but we didn't let that get us down. We sat and enjoyed the beautiful outdoors. Though I did absolutely horrible, I won a free game by hitting my ball into the return ball cup! That was a nice touch. After that we went to the Dollar Show and saw Grown Ups and it was pretty funny! After that he made dinner all by himself. We had lemon chicken in some Alfredo pasta type stuff and garlic bread. It passed my expectations. Sunday we went to church and then out to lunch. He had about 2 hours of practice to do with the church band so I was studious and studied for my Praxis exam. I sure do love that boy. He is pretty much the best, most of the time :-).

Next time I'll be down there is for fall break, in about a month. I think I will try to not plan out the entire weekend, but maybe just one or two things. It seemed we had more fun that way. Any who back to school...now the real work starts. Thanks Bobby for a truly GREAT weekend. I love you!